Made for an interesting yet sad read. MH issues and her feeling what she tweeted was not harming anyone.
Anonymous said
Jul 27 7:02 PM, 2025
Syl wrote:
/\ Brenda Leyland.
Brenda was an absolute freak with mental health problems.
She deflected most questions when she was approached but what is telling is that when they said “you’ve been posting comments about M McCann“ she replied “well that’s my right”.
So was it her right as a matter of free speech to voice her opinion on that matter, as relentlessly as she seemingly did? I don’t believe she ever made any threats or similar, so was it ever a criminal offence? She’ll never get to find out.
Anonymous said
Jul 27 7:08 PM, 2025
Fluffy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Syl said something on the other thread about people really being hurt by comments made on forum. Do you get hurt by it to the point of being upset?
I must admit that I’ve always seen it as just silly words on a screen which we can all switch off whenever we want. So never been in tears, never will but maybe others differ?
Have you ever been affected by news stories you've read? Did you say to yourself it's nothing, it's just words on a screen?
Sorry but I’ve not seem many genocides, mass murders or natural disasters happening on forums to date.
Bit different from “you’re an ugly cow.”
I think you will find a prolonged campaign of dehumanizing harassment and online abuse against one person goes a bit further than "you're an ugly cow".
Adults and teenagers have killed themselves due to it as Syl mentioned above. The woman who wrote "words on a screen" is now dead because her hate speech was exposed.
There definitely needs to be policing of teenagers receiving an onslaught of online abuse because they never get any respite.
Before social media home was a refuge for victims of toxic bullying. Not so now. Victims are bullied at school, receive dozens of bullying texts at home, have to endure websites dedicated to how worthless they are and how they should just kill themselves. Sadly some teenagers with their whole lives ahead of them have done just that.
But yeah, just words on a screen..
Thank you. If you could do me the courtesy of answering my question on the other thread then I’d be most grateful. Let’s not pick and choose what we pretend to read, we are all adults. Ultimately, if one can’t stand the heat then one should get out of the kitchen.
Fluffy said
Jul 27 8:33 PM, 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Fluffy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Syl said something on the other thread about people really being hurt by comments made on forum. Do you get hurt by it to the point of being upset?
I must admit that I’ve always seen it as just silly words on a screen which we can all switch off whenever we want. So never been in tears, never will but maybe others differ?
Have you ever been affected by news stories you've read? Did you say to yourself it's nothing, it's just words on a screen?
Sorry but I’ve not seem many genocides, mass murders or natural disasters happening on forums to date.
Bit different from “you’re an ugly cow.”
I think you will find a prolonged campaign of dehumanizing harassment and online abuse against one person goes a bit further than "you're an ugly cow".
Adults and teenagers have killed themselves due to it as Syl mentioned above. The woman who wrote "words on a screen" is now dead because her hate speech was exposed.
There definitely needs to be policing of teenagers receiving an onslaught of online abuse because they never get any respite.
Before social media home was a refuge for victims of toxic bullying. Not so now. Victims are bullied at school, receive dozens of bullying texts at home, have to endure websites dedicated to how worthless they are and how they should just kill themselves. Sadly some teenagers with their whole lives ahead of them have done just that.
But yeah, just words on a screen..
Yes you’re right but i doubt many of them had an active porn site running at the same time. You wanna flaunt it, you gotta take the flak. That goes for EVERYONE, man and woman.
Soo..it's not on to cyber bully anyone except women deemed promiscuous? ? You're showing your age Anon. And I wasn't talking about myself..But since you asked I didn't run a porn site I worked for FHM real girls where you had to have certain body measurements to have your videos accepted.
Very similar to "Only Fans," ( which made Katie Price a million pounds that she then lost !!) which is on the scene now and many young ladies film from their bedroom.. and any woman or man can do it. One young blonde boy made millions ,cynically watched by pervy old men but that's the point isn't it?
Why do certain women care so much about women taking their clothes off and not the men who watch it every day? Men involved in porn would just laugh at any attempt to shame them online, whether you think they are deserving of a stern telling off is irrelevant. The rest of the world doesn't agree. There is no supply without demand. I wouldn't say Only Fans is commonplace but about 1 in 10 girls have an account .A lot of ex models and celebrities do like Kerry Katona randomly enough.
Whether you think that's right or wrong ethically it's much safer for girls working in porn to do it themselves from home than actually doing the deed with blokes you don't know.
It won't surprise you to learn that women are the overwhelming victims of online bullying and hate speech, men can do what they want.
Caroline Flack may have taken her life due to cyberbullying she received because of an assault charge but I may be wrong. The fact is social media wasn't created for strangers to sit in judgement.The keyboard warriors must never have done anything wrong themselves in their lives, they surely live the life of Nuns. They must also be very bored!
Fluffy said
Jul 27 8:48 PM, 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Fluffy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Syl said something on the other thread about people really being hurt by comments made on forum. Do you get hurt by it to the point of being upset?
I must admit that I’ve always seen it as just silly words on a screen which we can all switch off whenever we want. So never been in tears, never will but maybe others differ?
Have you ever been affected by news stories you've read? Did you say to yourself it's nothing, it's just words on a screen?
Sorry but I’ve not seem many genocides, mass murders or natural disasters happening on forums to date.
Bit different from “you’re an ugly cow.”
I think you will find a prolonged campaign of dehumanizing harassment and online abuse against one person goes a bit further than "you're an ugly cow".
Adults and teenagers have killed themselves due to it as Syl mentioned above. The woman who wrote "words on a screen" is now dead because her hate speech was exposed.
There definitely needs to be policing of teenagers receiving an onslaught of online abuse because they never get any respite.
Before social media home was a refuge for victims of toxic bullying. Not so now. Victims are bullied at school, receive dozens of bullying texts at home, have to endure websites dedicated to how worthless they are and how they should just kill themselves. Sadly some teenagers with their whole lives ahead of them have done just that.
But yeah, just words on a screen..
Thank you. If you could do me the courtesy of answering my question on the other thread then I’d be most grateful. Let’s not pick and choose what we pretend to read, we are all adults. Ultimately, if one can’t stand the heat then one should get out of the kitchen.
Umm, what other question? I've been watching the Lionesses win the Euro's ,! It went to penalties
Sorry I don't study every thread looking for posts by "Anon" to see if they pertain to me. Hate speech online is considered illegal, people can go too far with vendettas hence why a certain other site is no longer here if your question is going on about justifying online hate speech. If you joined you could make posts without waiting to.be answered
Anonymous said
Jul 27 9:00 PM, 2025
Fluffy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Fluffy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Syl said something on the other thread about people really being hurt by comments made on forum. Do you get hurt by it to the point of being upset?
I must admit that I’ve always seen it as just silly words on a screen which we can all switch off whenever we want. So never been in tears, never will but maybe others differ?
Have you ever been affected by news stories you've read? Did you say to yourself it's nothing, it's just words on a screen?
Sorry but I’ve not seem many genocides, mass murders or natural disasters happening on forums to date.
Bit different from “you’re an ugly cow.”
I think you will find a prolonged campaign of dehumanizing harassment and online abuse against one person goes a bit further than "you're an ugly cow".
Adults and teenagers have killed themselves due to it as Syl mentioned above. The woman who wrote "words on a screen" is now dead because her hate speech was exposed.
There definitely needs to be policing of teenagers receiving an onslaught of online abuse because they never get any respite.
Before social media home was a refuge for victims of toxic bullying. Not so now. Victims are bullied at school, receive dozens of bullying texts at home, have to endure websites dedicated to how worthless they are and how they should just kill themselves. Sadly some teenagers with their whole lives ahead of them have done just that.
But yeah, just words on a screen..
Thank you. If you could do me the courtesy of answering my question on the other thread then I’d be most grateful. Let’s not pick and choose what we pretend to read, we are all adults. Ultimately, if one can’t stand the heat then one should get out of the kitchen.
Umm, what other question? I've been watching the Lionesses win the Euro's ,! It went to penalties
Sorry I don't study every thread looking for posts by "Anon" to see if they pertain to me. Hate speech online is considered illegal, people can go too far with vendettas hence why a certain other site is no longer here if your question is going on about justifying online hate speech. If you joined you could make posts without waiting to.be answered
A site upon which you were very active and prolific. Especially in judging the appearance of other women. Now pack it in please, nobody is as daft as you think.
Syl said
Jul 27 10:06 PM, 2025
Anonymous/\..YOU pack it in. It's beginning to look like you have an agenda.
Using a proxie, dragging up very old news, is beginning to wear a bit thin.
Made for an interesting yet sad read. MH issues and her feeling what she tweeted was not harming anyone.
It is sad. But she was a nasty troll, and nasty online trolls that hound people, like she did to the McCanns, can and do cause untold pain.
They are cowards, and sadly, when she was exposed, she couldn't stand the humiliation of her outwardly respectable persona being shattered....so she committed suicide.
Made for an interesting yet sad read. MH issues and her feeling what she tweeted was not harming anyone.
It is sad. But she was a nasty troll, and nasty online trolls that hound people, like she did to the McCanns, can and do cause untold pain.
They are cowards, and sadly, when she was exposed, she couldn't stand the humiliation of her outwardly respectable persona being shattered....so she committed suicide.
It shows that trolls hiding behind anonymity really are cowards at heart. It is sad though, her loved ones lost her forever due to nastiness online. I don't condone what she did at all but her crime was not so heinous she needed to pay with her life.
The rule to go by (just imo) is if you wouldn't say it in real life to someone in public, don't say it online. Obviously on forums like this where we know each other (sort of!) banter can go a little further. I posted on this little circle of forums regularly aged 30-37 so flipping heck that's 7 years and am really glad that CM survived with people I know as I enjoy posting here
That's because under Digger's ownership and your mutual moderation it is a pleasant place to post.
Guests can think I'm buttering you up all they like but I know you can see past that and it's my honest opinion. It's a shame the established social media platforms seem to be stuck in an endless loop of trolling.
Made for an interesting yet sad read. MH issues and her feeling what she tweeted was not harming anyone.
It is sad. But she was a nasty troll, and nasty online trolls that hound people, like she did to the McCanns, can and do cause untold pain.
They are cowards, and sadly, when she was exposed, she couldn't stand the humiliation of her outwardly respectable persona being shattered....so she committed suicide.
It shows that trolls hiding behind anonymity really are cowards at heart. It is sad though, her loved ones lost her forever due to nastiness online. I don't condone what she did at all but her crime was not so heinous she needed to pay with her life.
The rule to go by (just imo) is if you wouldn't say it in real life to someone in public, don't say it online. Obviously on forums like this where we know each other (sort of!) banter can go a little further. I posted on this little circle of forums regularly aged 30-37 so flipping heck that's 7 years and am really glad that CM survived with people I know as I enjoy posting here
That's because under Digger's ownership and your mutual moderation it is a pleasant place to post.
Guests can think I'm buttering you up all they like but I know you can see past that and it's my honest opinion. It's a shame the established social media platforms seem to be stuck in an endless loop of trolling.
Thanks for that, I do think this is a pleasant place to post, especially compared with some of the now defunct forums.
Truthfully, neither of us seldom have to do any modding, the place runs itself. We have had some bullying and tag teaming in the past, but it was stopped quick enough.
Barksdale said
Jul 28 8:47 PM, 2025
In the book "'Man's Search For Meaning" Viktor Frankl said the most fundamental freedom is the freedom to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances.
Ultimately it is just words on a screen and we get to choose how we respond to them. That can be very difficult as words are powerful and can wound deeply but we have the power to take that away.
Syl said
Jul 29 12:07 PM, 2025
Barksdale wrote:
In the book "'Man's Search For Meaning" Viktor Frankl said the most fundamental freedom is the freedom to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances.
Ultimately it is just words on a screen and we get to choose how we respond to them. That can be very difficult as words are powerful and can wound deeply but we have the power to take that away.
I remember when I was a kid, if someone said something mean to me, I would go in and tell my mum, she used to quote the saying.. 'Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me', when I was a kid, it seemed so easy to follow that.
Obviously, as an adult, I know it's not that easy. In real life, words can and do hurt...for me, on a forum, what a random stranger says, it has no effect.
If it was someone I had never met, but posted with over time, and came to like, it would have an effect.
I do try to work on the premise not to say to someone online that I would not be prepared to say to their face. Imo it's cowardly to hide anonymously saying nasty things.
Vam said
Jul 29 3:14 PM, 2025
Syl wrote:
Barksdale wrote:
In the book "'Man's Search For Meaning" Viktor Frankl said the most fundamental freedom is the freedom to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances.
Ultimately it is just words on a screen and we get to choose how we respond to them. That can be very difficult as words are powerful and can wound deeply but we have the power to take that away.
I remember when I was a kid, if someone said something mean to me, I would go in and tell my mum, she used to quote the saying.. 'Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me', when I was a kid, it seemed so easy to follow that.
Obviously, as an adult, I know it's not that easy. In real life, words can and do hurt...for me, on a forum, what a random stranger says, it has no effect.
If it was someone I had never met, but posted with over time, and came to like, it would have an effect.
I do try to work on the premise not to say to someone online that I would not be prepared to say to their face. Imo it's cowardly to hide anonymously saying nasty things.
🎯 That’s my golden rule, too. I may be ‘talking’ to people from behind a screen, but there’s no way I’m hiding who I am!
Syl said
Jul 30 11:20 AM, 2025
Vam wrote:
Syl wrote:
Barksdale wrote:
In the book "'Man's Search For Meaning" Viktor Frankl said the most fundamental freedom is the freedom to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances.
Ultimately it is just words on a screen and we get to choose how we respond to them. That can be very difficult as words are powerful and can wound deeply but we have the power to take that away.
I remember when I was a kid, if someone said something mean to me, I would go in and tell my mum, she used to quote the saying.. 'Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me', when I was a kid, it seemed so easy to follow that.
Obviously, as an adult, I know it's not that easy. In real life, words can and do hurt...for me, on a forum, what a random stranger says, it has no effect.
If it was someone I had never met, but posted with over time, and came to like, it would have an effect.
I do try to work on the premise not to say to someone online that I would not be prepared to say to their face. Imo it's cowardly to hide anonymously saying nasty things.
🎯 That’s my golden rule, too. I may be ‘talking’ to people from behind a screen, but there’s no way I’m hiding who I am!
Even when you guest posted here, you always put a name to your posts.
I do undertsand why people post as a guest, I will never understand why some use proxies to be unpleasant. The only guess I can come up with, is cowardice.
Fluffy said
Jul 31 6:02 PM, 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Syl said something on the other thread about people really being hurt by comments made on forum. Do you get hurt by it to the point of being upset?
I must admit that I’ve always seen it as just silly words on a screen which we can all switch off whenever we want. So never been in tears, never will but maybe others differ?
Have you ever been affected by news stories you've read? Did you say to yourself it's nothing, it's just words on a screen?
News stories are different to a scrote sitting behind a screen bullying someone don’t you think…oh hang on, seems you don’t.
Words are powerful, whatever way they're delivered - be it spoken, written on a screen or in a letter. To call them 'just words' trivialises them and the effect they can have.
That is an elegant and succinct way of summing up this topic..
Australia are so concerned about the effects of social media platforms on teenagers it will be banned for under 16's to access soon. This is the most strict approach to the toxic bullying on social media for young people and obviously, people are not sure that the young people will abide by the ruling.
But for those who are victims of online pressure and hateful rhetoric this news will be most welcome.
Here’s an article if anyone else is interested https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/mar/18/my-mother-troll-of-madeleine-mccann-parents
Made for an interesting yet sad read. MH issues and her feeling what she tweeted was not harming anyone.
Brenda was an absolute freak with mental health problems.
She deflected most questions when she was approached but what is telling is that when they said “you’ve been posting comments about M McCann“ she replied “well that’s my right”.
So was it her right as a matter of free speech to voice her opinion on that matter, as relentlessly as she seemingly did? I don’t believe she ever made any threats or similar, so was it ever a criminal offence? She’ll never get to find out.
Thank you. If you could do me the courtesy of answering my question on the other thread then I’d be most grateful. Let’s not pick and choose what we pretend to read, we are all adults. Ultimately, if one can’t stand the heat then one should get out of the kitchen.
Soo..it's not on to cyber bully anyone except women deemed promiscuous? ? You're showing your age Anon. And I wasn't talking about myself..But since you asked I didn't run a porn site I worked for FHM real girls where you had to have certain body measurements to have your videos accepted.
Very similar to "Only Fans," ( which made Katie Price a million pounds that she then lost !!) which is on the scene now and many young ladies film from their bedroom.. and any woman or man can do it. One young blonde boy made millions ,cynically watched by pervy old men but that's the point isn't it?
Why do certain women care so much about women taking their clothes off and not the men who watch it every day? Men involved in porn would just laugh at any attempt to shame them online, whether you think they are deserving of a stern telling off is irrelevant.
The rest of the world doesn't agree. There is no supply without demand. I wouldn't say Only Fans is commonplace but about 1 in 10 girls have an account .A lot of ex models and celebrities do like Kerry Katona randomly enough.
Whether you think that's right or wrong ethically it's much safer for girls working in porn to do it themselves from home than actually doing the deed with blokes you don't know.
It won't surprise you to learn that women are the overwhelming victims of online bullying and hate speech, men can do what they want.
Caroline Flack may have taken her life due to cyberbullying she received because of an assault charge but I may be wrong. The fact is social media wasn't created for strangers to sit in judgement.The keyboard warriors must never have done anything wrong themselves in their lives, they surely live the life of Nuns. They must also be very bored!
Umm, what other question? I've been watching the Lionesses win the Euro's ,! It went to penalties
Sorry I don't study every thread looking for posts by "Anon" to see if they pertain to me. Hate speech online is considered illegal, people can go too far with vendettas hence why a certain other site is no longer here if your question is going on about justifying online hate speech. If you joined you could make posts without waiting to.be answered
A site upon which you were very active and prolific. Especially in judging the appearance of other women. Now pack it in please, nobody is as daft as you think.
Anonymous/\..YOU pack it in. It's beginning to look like you have an agenda.
Using a proxie, dragging up very old news, is beginning to wear a bit thin.
It is sad. But she was a nasty troll, and nasty online trolls that hound people, like she did to the McCanns, can and do cause untold pain.
They are cowards, and sadly, when she was exposed, she couldn't stand the humiliation of her outwardly respectable persona being shattered....so she committed suicide.
It shows that trolls hiding behind anonymity really are cowards at heart. It is sad though, her loved ones lost her forever due to nastiness online. I don't condone what she did at all but her crime was not so heinous she needed to pay with her life.
The rule to go by (just imo) is if you wouldn't say it in real life to someone in public, don't say it online. Obviously on forums like this where we know each other (sort of!) banter can go a little further. I posted on this little circle of forums regularly aged 30-37 so flipping heck that's 7 years and am really glad that CM survived with people I know as I enjoy posting here
That's because under Digger's ownership and your mutual moderation it is a pleasant place to post.
Guests can think I'm buttering you up all they like but I know you can see past that and it's my honest opinion.
It's a shame the established social media platforms seem to be stuck in an endless loop of trolling.
Thanks for that, I do think this is a pleasant place to post, especially compared with some of the now defunct forums.
Truthfully, neither of us seldom have to do any modding, the place runs itself. We have had some bullying and tag teaming in the past, but it was stopped quick enough.
In the book "'Man's Search For Meaning" Viktor Frankl said the most fundamental freedom is the freedom to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances.
Ultimately it is just words on a screen and we get to choose how we respond to them. That can be very difficult as words are powerful and can wound deeply but we have the power to take that away.
I remember when I was a kid, if someone said something mean to me, I would go in and tell my mum, she used to quote the saying.. 'Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me', when I was a kid, it seemed so easy to follow that.
Obviously, as an adult, I know it's not that easy. In real life, words can and do hurt...for me, on a forum, what a random stranger says, it has no effect.
If it was someone I had never met, but posted with over time, and came to like, it would have an effect.
I do try to work on the premise not to say to someone online that I would not be prepared to say to their face. Imo it's cowardly to hide anonymously saying nasty things.
🎯
That’s my golden rule, too. I may be ‘talking’ to people from behind a screen, but there’s no way I’m hiding who I am!
Even when you guest posted here, you always put a name to your posts.
I do undertsand why people post as a guest, I will never understand why some use proxies to be unpleasant. The only guess I can come up with, is cowardice.
That is an elegant and succinct way of summing up this topic..
Australia are so concerned about the effects of social media platforms on teenagers it will be banned for under 16's to access soon. This is the most strict approach to the toxic bullying on social media for young people and obviously, people are not sure that the young people will abide by the ruling.
But for those who are victims of online pressure and hateful rhetoric this news will be most welcome.
Source-
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c89vjj0lxx9o