I have never in my life had one. Even when I was young, single and fancy free the thought of a quick meaningless bonk never appealed to me.
I doubt many men feel the same, and I know a lot of women have no qualms, but the idea of waking up in the morning and feeling used (yes I AM old fashioned like that) never appealed to me one jot.
Me neither. I can't think of anything worse.
Magica said
Oct 22 1:04 AM, 2019
Nor me. The thought makes me sick. I have to love someone for that, which is why I married him.
Syl said
Oct 22 12:29 PM, 2019
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex.
Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
Binny said
Oct 23 10:33 AM, 2019
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
Those were the ones having knee tremblers up the alleyway or even from behind standing at the bar. Yes I did see a vid of that fucking hell! I think it was a bar in Geordieland.
ETA The Red House
-- Edited by Binny on Wednesday 23rd of October 2019 10:33:57 AM
John Doe said
Oct 23 11:18 AM, 2019
Binny wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
Those were the ones having knee tremblers up the alleyway or even from behind standing at the bar. Yes I did see a vid of that fucking hell! I think it was a bar in Geordieland.
ETA The Red House
-- Edited by Binny on Wednesday 23rd of October 2019 10:33:57 AM
BackGammon said
Oct 23 3:25 PM, 2019
Binny wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
Those were the ones having knee tremblers up the alleyway or even from behind standing at the bar. Yes I did see a vid of that fucking hell! I think it was a bar in Geordieland.
ETA The Red House
-- Edited by Binny on Wednesday 23rd of October 2019 10:33:57 AM
:embarrassed:
Syl said
Oct 23 3:46 PM, 2019
Digger said
Oct 23 5:18 PM, 2019
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
John Doe said
Oct 23 5:25 PM, 2019
Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
Is she on here?
Digger said
Oct 23 5:28 PM, 2019
John Doe wrote:
Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
Is she on here?
Probably dead by now!!!
John Doe said
Oct 23 5:35 PM, 2019
Digger wrote:
John Doe wrote:
Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
Is she on here?
Probably dead by now!!!
Death by shagging!
Syl said
Oct 23 6:46 PM, 2019
Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
I worked in a club once, where two very high class girls of the night would frequent, not many people knew they were on the game, they just looked like two middle class housewives having a good time out on the town.
Some of the stuff they talked about was hilarious, but some of it was sad too. They could distinguish what they did from their everyday life, bringing up kids and providing them with the best of everything.
They had a time scale on what they were doing, certain rules that all their regulars had to abide by, in fact they came across as very moral women providing a service for selected men ...they were quite fussy who they entertained.
I liked them both, hope they met their targets and retired to a rose covered cottage in the country....which was their aim.
BackGammon said
Oct 25 2:20 PM, 2019
Syl wrote:
Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
I worked in a club once, where two very high class girls of the night would frequent, not many people knew they were on the game, they just looked like two middle class housewives having a good time out on the town.
Some of the stuff they talked about was hilarious, but some of it was sad too. They could distinguish what they did from their everyday life, bringing up kids and providing them with the best of everything.
They had a time scale on what they were doing, certain rules that all their regulars had to abide by, in fact they came across as very moral women providing a service for selected men ...they were quite fussy who they entertained.
I liked them both, hope they met their targets and retired to a rose covered cottage in the country....which was their aim.
Sounds very sensible. I'm sad that some have to do it to pay their rent as we heard on the news this morning due to the inhumane Universal Credit.
John Doe said
Oct 25 2:22 PM, 2019
BackGammon wrote:
Syl wrote:
Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
We are a very moral lot on here....not that I am judging others.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex. Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters) and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
I worked in a club once, where two very high class girls of the night would frequent, not many people knew they were on the game, they just looked like two middle class housewives having a good time out on the town.
Some of the stuff they talked about was hilarious, but some of it was sad too. They could distinguish what they did from their everyday life, bringing up kids and providing them with the best of everything.
They had a time scale on what they were doing, certain rules that all their regulars had to abide by, in fact they came across as very moral women providing a service for selected men ...they were quite fussy who they entertained.
I liked them both, hope they met their targets and retired to a rose covered cottage in the country....which was their aim.
Sounds very sensible. I'm sad that some have to do it to pay their rent as we heard on the news this morning due to the inhumane Universal Credit.
Yeah I saw that - terrible, but that's the fucking Tories for you.
BackGammon said
Oct 25 2:24 PM, 2019
No argument here, bastards.
Syl said
Oct 25 2:25 PM, 2019
I read that too. If anyone feels they have no choice other than prostitute themselves out just to pay the bills, in a so called wealthy developed country...words fail.
BackGammon said
Oct 25 2:41 PM, 2019
Syl wrote:
I read that too. If anyone feels they have no choice other than prostitute themselves out just to pay the bills, in a so called wealthy developed country...words fail.
I know some women have had to do it in the past but the scale of it now is unreal. Food banks, prostitution, broken Britain.
Syl said
Oct 25 2:48 PM, 2019
It's sad.
I have been poor in the past, lived amongst poverty when we were kids, which was the norm back then for working class people, but even in those depressing days I dont think many woman had to go on the game to survive.
BackGammon said
Oct 25 3:17 PM, 2019
Syl wrote:
It's sad. I have been poor in the past, lived amongst poverty when we were kids, which was the norm back then for working class people, but even in those depressing days I dont think many woman had to go on the game to survive.
No you just made do. I think if you were on the game then there might have been an element of that, blokes buying you the drink etc, then junkies doing it for drugs money, but now doing it so you can feed your kids is a fucking disgrace.
Digger said
Oct 25 4:13 PM, 2019
BackGammon wrote:
Syl wrote:
I read that too. If anyone feels they have no choice other than prostitute themselves out just to pay the bills, in a so called wealthy developed country...words fail.
I know some women have had to do it in the past but the scale of it now is unreal. Food banks, prostitution, broken Britain.
I've told this story before, but I had a client who was a prostitute. Her house was like a fucking palace. She was loaded. She ran a brothel in Oldham. And she wasn't unhappy doing it either. Said it was easier than a 9 to 5. Her mate showed up as I was doing her nails (in my nail tech days) and started chatting about her own clients, and what laugh she had. There was nothing reluctant about either of them. They tried to get me to do it and I was like....I won't even go topless on the beach..fuck off!
Me neither. I can't think of anything worse.
I used to go out with a group of girls, one used to say 'If I haven't copped by 10 oclock I am going home'. Her sole purpose in going out was to meet someone (anyone really, she was less than fussy) for a quick bonk, in my opinion she had more of a male outlook to sex.
Maybe it's different nowadays, women are equal after all.
Though it's not men who get left with an unwanted pregnancy if passion overtakes precaution....so maybe in that respect women will never be truly equal.
Those were the ones having knee tremblers up the alleyway or even from behind standing at the bar. Yes I did see a vid of that fucking hell! I think it was a bar in Geordieland.
ETA The Red House
-- Edited by Binny on Wednesday 23rd of October 2019 10:33:57 AM
:embarrassed:
I had a friend years ago that was a right raver. She'd shag anything. She once did something unmentionable with food mixer (batter beaters)
and once had sex doggy style on a gravestone wearing just her white cowboy boots. She's regale us with tales of her sex life and I'd have this moral fight wishing I could be so liberated and at the same time glad that I wasn't.
Is she on here?
Probably dead by now!!!
Death by shagging!
I worked in a club once, where two very high class girls of the night would frequent, not many people knew they were on the game, they just looked like two middle class housewives having a good time out on the town.
Some of the stuff they talked about was hilarious, but some of it was sad too. They could distinguish what they did from their everyday life, bringing up kids and providing them with the best of everything.
They had a time scale on what they were doing, certain rules that all their regulars had to abide by, in fact they came across as very moral women providing a service for selected men ...they were quite fussy who they entertained.
I liked them both, hope they met their targets and retired to a rose covered cottage in the country....which was their aim.
Sounds very sensible. I'm sad that some have to do it to pay their rent as we heard on the news this morning due to the inhumane Universal Credit.
Yeah I saw that - terrible, but that's the fucking Tories for you.
I know some women have had to do it in the past but the scale of it now is unreal. Food banks, prostitution, broken Britain.
I have been poor in the past, lived amongst poverty when we were kids, which was the norm back then for working class people, but even in those depressing days I dont think many woman had to go on the game to survive.
No you just made do. I think if you were on the game then there might have been an element of that, blokes buying you the drink etc, then junkies doing it for drugs money, but now doing it so you can feed your kids is a fucking disgrace.
I've told this story before, but I had a client who was a prostitute. Her house was like a fucking palace. She was loaded. She ran a brothel in Oldham. And she wasn't unhappy doing it either. Said it was easier than a 9 to 5. Her mate showed up as I was doing her nails (in my nail tech days) and started chatting about her own clients, and what laugh she had. There was nothing reluctant about either of them. They tried to get me to do it and I was like....I won't even go topless on the beach..fuck off!