ChaoticMusings

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Syl wrote:

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Do these excuses for men call the women they know the c word in real life I wonder?
If there is nothing wrong with it how would they react if some other oaf called their wives or mother these name...I wonder again.

The truth is either these hen pecked little inadequates don't talk to women like that in real life, or if they do they will be sad little men living alone because no decent woman would put up with it.

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 They'd fuck all. They can only act hard on the Forums. I remember reading one ponce posts who was giving advice on how to use a baseball bat as a weapon 

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 Or alternatively as a jewellry tree

rollup wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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All the pseudo psychiatric diagnoses is utter nonsense as far as I'm concerned.
It's just a bunch of people behaving badly because they can.
There are intelligent hard working people in that group who I'm sure cause little or no harm in the big wide world and could be your nicest neighbours.
Are they torturing children killing cats stabbing people on the streets of London?
I doubt it.
More likely they are laughing at outraged from Basildon.
Do any of you watch horror movies?
Must be something seriously wrong with you yes?

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 I've encountered one or two people online I would consider have some persona;ity disorder and would, if they could, harrass and bully people to the point of suicide and enjoy that. You've also got to consider the amount of doxing, posting of personal/intimate information and threats made.

Sure most of them are sad little fucks who get off on causing upset and outrage while getting all outraged when they finally ancounter pushback. Seen that a lot too. Foutrage works both ways. I tend to deal with them by taking the piss if I'm in a good mood, or telling them to fuck off if I'm in a bad mood. But there is one simple solution anyone can use that's logging off, putting on ignore or going elsewhere. That doesn't make their bahaviour any less dickish but it's a simple solution.

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 Pretty much the way I've always dealt with it all.

But threads like this show no matter how much they hate dogs and some of the posters many of them just can't stop talking about the place.

Do they secretly love it?

Maybe as a means of making themselves feel better about themselves?

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 We all need a target for our spleen bitching

dr synne wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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All the pseudo psychiatric diagnoses is utter nonsense as far as I'm concerned.
It's just a bunch of people behaving badly because they can.
There are intelligent hard working people in that group who I'm sure cause little or no harm in the big wide world and could be your nicest neighbours.
Are they torturing children killing cats stabbing people on the streets of London?
I doubt it.
More likely they are laughing at outraged from Basildon.
Do any of you watch horror movies?
Must be something seriously wrong with you yes?

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 I've encountered one or two people online I would consider have some persona;ity disorder and would, if they could, harrass and bully people to the point of suicide and enjoy that. You've also got to consider the amount of doxing, posting of personal/intimate information and threats made.

Sure most of them are sad little fucks who get off on causing upset and outrage while getting all outraged when they finally ancounter pushback. Seen that a lot too. Foutrage works both ways. I tend to deal with them by taking the piss if I'm in a good mood, or telling them to fuck off if I'm in a bad mood. But there is one simple solution anyone can use that's logging off, putting on ignore or going elsewhere. That doesn't make their bahaviour any less dickish but it's a simple solution.

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 Pretty much the way I've always dealt with it all.

But threads like this show no matter how much they hate dogs and some of the posters many of them just can't stop talking about the place.

Do they secretly love it?

Maybe as a means of making themselves feel better about themselves?

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 We all need a target for our spleen bitching

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 Never heard it put that way before!

dr synne wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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All the pseudo psychiatric diagnoses is utter nonsense as far as I'm concerned.
It's just a bunch of people behaving badly because they can.
There are intelligent hard working people in that group who I'm sure cause little or no harm in the big wide world and could be your nicest neighbours.
Are they torturing children killing cats stabbing people on the streets of London?
I doubt it.
More likely they are laughing at outraged from Basildon.
Do any of you watch horror movies?
Must be something seriously wrong with you yes?

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 I've encountered one or two people online I would consider have some persona;ity disorder and would, if they could, harrass and bully people to the point of suicide and enjoy that. You've also got to consider the amount of doxing, posting of personal/intimate information and threats made.

Sure most of them are sad little fucks who get off on causing upset and outrage while getting all outraged when they finally ancounter pushback. Seen that a lot too. Foutrage works both ways. I tend to deal with them by taking the piss if I'm in a good mood, or telling them to fuck off if I'm in a bad mood. But there is one simple solution anyone can use that's logging off, putting on ignore or going elsewhere. That doesn't make their bahaviour any less dickish but it's a simple solution.

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 I have met folk on forums who have doxed and they weren't very well. Alot of unfortunate people have had their real life dragged into forums. Jack hasn't so he can't really identify but there is such a thing as empathy.But one can't expect that from strangers I guess.

I agree completely with  your first paragraph, your sentiments are again, spot on. I won't say that again or your head will swell ! 😊

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Georgia x wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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rollup wrote:

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All the pseudo psychiatric diagnoses is utter nonsense as far as I'm concerned.
It's just a bunch of people behaving badly because they can.
There are intelligent hard working people in that group who I'm sure cause little or no harm in the big wide world and could be your nicest neighbours.
Are they torturing children killing cats stabbing people on the streets of London?
I doubt it.
More likely they are laughing at outraged from Basildon.
Do any of you watch horror movies?
Must be something seriously wrong with you yes?

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 I've encountered one or two people online I would consider have some persona;ity disorder and would, if they could, harrass and bully people to the point of suicide and enjoy that. You've also got to consider the amount of doxing, posting of personal/intimate information and threats made.

Sure most of them are sad little fucks who get off on causing upset and outrage while getting all outraged when they finally ancounter pushback. Seen that a lot too. Foutrage works both ways. I tend to deal with them by taking the piss if I'm in a good mood, or telling them to fuck off if I'm in a bad mood. But there is one simple solution anyone can use that's logging off, putting on ignore or going elsewhere. That doesn't make their bahaviour any less dickish but it's a simple solution.

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 Pretty much the way I've always dealt with it all.

But threads like this show no matter how much they hate dogs and some of the posters many of them just can't stop talking about the place.

Do they secretly love it?

Maybe as a means of making themselves feel better about themselves?

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 We all need a target for our spleen bitching

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 Never heard it put that way before!

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 I don't know Jack.

You don't need to feel better about yourself surely? 😉

You are posting on the thread..,talking away about Dogs, as you have done for a few consecutive nights..having a pop at posters when  you are doing the exact same thing.

I'm totally confused. The Whine is here for well, a Whine as Syl has pointed out before. But who comes on the Whine to bitch as you did  (not probs,  that is what the Whine is for) and then has a pop at other posters for  having their say? 

Ive never seen it before!  

 

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 I'll take a wild guess here that for every fifty posts you make about dogs I make a couple ....'cept for the last few nights but there's been bugger all else going on here!

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 If it makes you happy, by all means do so.😊

People and their behaviour  interest me, that's why I studied psychology. And nah you would make ten posts for my forty 

Tart, lol...!😄 

dr synne wrote:

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kizzie wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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Georgia x wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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Georgia x wrote:

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dr synne wrote:

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I'm finding all the internal politics and rivalries a on dogs a bit confusing. . Worked out the truly damaged posters fairly quickly though.

-- Edited by dr synne on Sunday 12th of January 2020 10:12:35 PM

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 Dean objects to women being "girls" in the workplace but doesn't mind calling a woman on a forum a "cunt".

Dean has been very fair minded when everyone around him was insulting me for the lols,  Lady M and Xtras debating if I was born a man etc so they can all be pretty nasty on there.

The Pay in the Workplace thread is particularly vicious, Dean is obviously in the wrong to call Lady M a c*nt just for creating  a pretty standard thread. But he is always targeting her and in the thread he claims to hate all women equally-I do believe he should just be taken at his word.

Bans have been dished out for far far less .  But as much as Hobbit and Holly clearly despise him he never receives one. 

For what it's worth Dr Synne I think you were spot on with your comments about how McAz is absurdly selective in what he chooses to be offended by. Lord Raven should not call women at work "girls' but it's OK for Dean to call women on forums  'c*nts'.

Well, it's not one rule for the rest of the world and another for Dean sadly, except in Aziz's view.

It's transparent trolling on McAz's part. I think acknowledging it is understandable but gives his carry on too much merit. He is behaving very foolishly for reasons known only to him. It is cringeworthy to witness him pretending not to recognise his own hypocrisy. At least Dean is being true to himself, McAz used to be witty,  intelligent and fair-minded.

Now sadly he us unrecognisable as a poster. 

 

It's a trolling forum so fair enough shit gets thrown around. 

 

I would say though that if that's the case why can words and comments of others get seized on and turned into some faux outrage fest. As I've said if it's a trolling firum no one gets to have the monopoly on bad behaviour or crappy comments.

PS I'm woefully ignorant about FM's history and who gets on with who or not. I just say it as I come across it.

-- Edited by Georgia x on Sunday 12th of January 2020 11:33:41 PM

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-- Edited by dr synne on Monday 13th of January 2020 10:13:54 AM

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 I didn't realise it was a trolling forum so I got pretty upset when I was called deformed etc when I we first arrived, also some people have differing views on how far trolling should go.  Hence problems arise. 

I don't think calling a woman the c word is morally right and that is not faux outrage.  You said yourself you wouldn't personally call a woman a c*nt, even on a forum. I think Hobbit probably feels he same, it just feels inherently wrong to allow men to address you that way and further still, you are not allowed to voice that feeling for fear of being viewed as t desiring a double standard,

Well yes,  ok I will admit it, I want a double standard. I want men on forums to act as they do in real life and not call women c*nts. It just makes the "atmosphere " on the plsce unfriendly and hostile imo.

Ledge wants to spam menopausal videos in his posts to mock female posters.

McAz wants people to stop chastising Dean for being racist to Lady M  so posts like "the fat indian cunt" are perfectly within the boundaries in his view. In basic terms he feels if male posters cannot call women c*nts that is not equality for men.

He deems it unfair that men on forums are viewed as misogynistic for using the c word towards women because forums are not real life and apparently they wouldn’t use the term in real life (to the ladies face at least). 

Does he have a point?

I don't think the outrage displayed by women on this particular matter is fake. After a while being talked to like crap just wouldn't be a pleasant way to utilise your free time. 

So women have left.

 

I wouldn't take the opinions on there too seriously, nasty as they can be. I was a DS refugee and didn't know it was a trolling forum either. Soon found out though. Just remember those who try and be nasty about the way others look probably do it because they look like Anne Widdicombes vagina.

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 Yes that's much better than cunt.  

 

It's a fallacy that good looking people are not bitches about others looks.  

 

( sorry having a problem typing as the baby is asleep on my shoulders, don't ask )

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 Sorry that was innapropriate of me. Forgive me.

Yes good looking people judge others on their looks as well as the insecure ones. I highly doubt any forums have a cast of Dawsons Creek lookalikes though.

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Hey watch your mouth, we are a stunning lot here.    

this is us from our beano this summer. 

Why can’t you both actually do what you have said in the past.

Ignore JD’s posts.

But you don’t you always keep having a dig, and it is becoming boring.

plus when you both start having a go, it becomes Tag Teaming.

Ok my bad. This place being the exception that proves the rule.

kizzie wrote:

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Twizzler wrote:

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Why can’t you both actually do what you have said in the past.

Ignore JD’s posts.

But you don’t you always keep having a dig, and it is becoming boring.

plus when you both start having a go, it becomes Tag Teaming.

 

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 So we have to ignore what he says out here now as well?  Thought this was the place we were supposed to air our disagreements. 

We are supposed to ignore him when he posts his drunken rants in our threads and now we are to ignore him out here. its not enough we don't go into his threads? 

 

It's looking like 

Kizzie, Rolly and anyone else who does not get on with him = wrong to say anything at all to him 

JD, you, and anyone who does get on with him allowed saying what they want where they want to those who don't get on with him 

 

I think that's about it Just to clarify so I know what the rules are?   It's getting very confusing.    

 

 

 

-- Edited by kizzie on Tuesday 14th of January 2020 11:00:13 AM

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Duplicate post, soz.