ChaoticMusings

BackGammon wrote:

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Twizzler wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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Excuse me just a frequent guest passing through.

this used to be the whine 

now it’s all fluffy posts and guest posts heavily moderated. Have a hug??

isnt there a chat thread inside somewhere?

lets get back to a few good rucks, it’s getting boring 

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 Fluffy posts are the best ones 

Aren't you bored of rucks? Hugs are needed at the moment with the lockdown impacting on people's lives and the economy so much,  I enjoy reading here as it's much more friendly and one can comment on current affairs.

Trolls lead very sad lives and are best ignored. Arguing online is considered passe I'm afraid! 

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 Aye Fluffers posts are the best, but only if you want to create forum wars, which she tried to do here.

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I agree with this alot  

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 You ALL bitch about elsewhere though,  you are bitching and taking the piss out of a dogs member on this thread! That's what the Whine is for granted, and ever since you have joined you have insulted members of another forum..and this. 

So why was fluffy any different to you , or Twizzler?  both of you started on her before and now, again on this thread. After you have finished your bitching about someone else..and your signature is mocking a non member.

But Fluffy wanted "wars" and you don't. OK.  It seems one rule for some and one for others. If no one wants to fight with you, and you start on them , fill your boots. But don't claim it's their fault when you started the whole thing. Some folk are tired of fighting.

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BackGammon wrote:

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Twizzler wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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 Fluffy posts are the best ones 

Aren't you bored of rucks? Hugs are needed at the moment with the lockdown impacting on people's lives and the economy so much,  I enjoy reading here as it's much more friendly and one can comment on current affairs.

Trolls lead very sad lives and are best ignored. Arguing online is considered passe I'm afraid! 

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 Aye Fluffers posts are the best, but only if you want to create forum wars, which she tried to do here.

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I agree with this alot  

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 You ALL bitch about elsewhere though,  you are bitching and taking the piss out of a dogs member on this thread! That's what the Whine is for granted, and ever since you have joined you have insulted members of another forum..and this. 

So why was fluffy any different to you , or Twizzler?  both of you started on her before and now, again on this thread. After you have finished your bitching about someone else..and your signature is mocking a non member.

But Fluffy wanted "wars" and you don't. OK.  It seems one rule for some and one for others. If no one wants to fight with you, and you start on them , fill your boots. But don't claim it's their fault when you started the whole thing. Some folk are tired of fighting.

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 I’d love to stop and chat with you but pressure washing the garden furniture is so much more interesting than wasting time conversing with someone who thinks it’s ok for a woman to call another woman with a big nose an anteater. 

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The problem with smallish forums, especially ones like this one and Dogs, they have members who often have lot's of history with each other, some good some bad.
Some people just cant let go of the past...so on and on these grudges go, with other people adding a bit here and there as they go.

Others let bygones be bygones, and if what happened in the past is not something they are able to easily forgive and forget, at least they manage to avoid each other and not forever be dragging the past up for another outing.

There are people I dont like, and dont even want to like on forums....I simply ignore them, it's better for ones blood pressure.

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 That's very good advice! I had trouble on forums once and felt pretty worthless. I retaliated but often I was up against a lot of posters so was never going to win. But I can't claim innocence, Posters called  me horrible names so I did the same back. The moment I did that I was as bad as them.

Its Fathers Day and my dad has passed recently.  My family  is devastated and I have grown up a lot when it comes to online rubbish.  It's sad people won't move on.  I have forgiven  people because as the saying goes "An eye for an eye and the world goes blind". 

Kindness is the way forward, and people can and do change. I can only speak for myself as an Anon  but I just want everyone to  be happy and get on.  But if people sadly want to remain in the past arguing they can do so alone.

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Syl wrote:

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The problem with smallish forums, especially ones like this one and Dogs, they have members who often have lot's of history with each other, some good some bad.
Some people just cant let go of the past...so on and on these grudges go, with other people adding a bit here and there as they go.

Others let bygones be bygones, and if what happened in the past is not something they are able to easily forgive and forget, at least they manage to avoid each other and not forever be dragging the past up for another outing.

There are people I dont like, and dont even want to like on forums....I simply ignore them, it's better for ones blood pressure.

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 That's very good advice! I had trouble on forums once and felt pretty worthless. I retaliated but often I was up against a lot of posters so was never going to win. But I can't claim innocence, Posters called  me horrible names so I did the same back. The moment I did that I was as bad as them.

Its Fathers Day and my dad has passed recently.  My family  is devastated and I have grown up a lot when it comes to online rubbish.  It's sad people won't move on.  I have forgiven  people because as the saying goes "An eye for an eye and the world goes blind". 

Kindness is the way forward, and people can and do change. I can only speak for myself as an Anon  but I just want everyone to  be happy and get on.  But if people sadly want to remain in the past arguing they can do so alone.

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That is an excellent post and I am so very sorry that your father has recently passed. XXX

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Syl wrote:

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The problem with smallish forums, especially ones like this one and Dogs, they have members who often have lot's of history with each other, some good some bad.
Some people just cant let go of the past...so on and on these grudges go, with other people adding a bit here and there as they go.

Others let bygones be bygones, and if what happened in the past is not something they are able to easily forgive and forget, at least they manage to avoid each other and not forever be dragging the past up for another outing.

There are people I dont like, and dont even want to like on forums....I simply ignore them, it's better for ones blood pressure.

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 That's very good advice! I had trouble on forums once and felt pretty worthless. I retaliated but often I was up against a lot of posters so was never going to win. But I can't claim innocence, Posters called  me horrible names so I did the same back. The moment I did that I was as bad as them.

Its Fathers Day and my dad has passed recently.  My family  is devastated and I have grown up a lot when it comes to online rubbish.  It's sad people won't move on.  I have forgiven  people because as the saying goes "An eye for an eye and the world goes blind". 

Kindness is the way forward, and people can and do change. I can only speak for myself as an Anon  but I just want everyone to  be happy and get on.  But if people sadly want to remain in the past arguing they can do so alone.

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That is an excellent post and I am so very sorry that your father has recently passed. XXX

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 Thank you xx You're a kind poster and have had to put up with  a lot of lies told about you so  i'm really glad you have settled here and are content .  People see kindness for weakness but that's an indication of their character, not yours.

Glad everything is good with you JD :sunny:

BGNLI wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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BackGammon wrote:

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Twizzler wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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 Fluffy posts are the best ones 

Aren't you bored of rucks? Hugs are needed at the moment with the lockdown impacting on people's lives and the economy so much,  I enjoy reading here as it's much more friendly and one can comment on current affairs.

Trolls lead very sad lives and are best ignored. Arguing online is considered passe I'm afraid! 

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 Aye Fluffers posts are the best, but only if you want to create forum wars, which she tried to do here.

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I agree with this alot  

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 You ALL bitch about elsewhere though,  you are bitching and taking the piss out of a dogs member on this thread! That's what the Whine is for granted, and ever since you have joined you have insulted members of another forum..and this. C

So why was fluffy any different to you , or Twizzler?  both of you started on her before and now, again on this thread. After you have finished your bitching about someone else..and your signature is mocking a non member.

But Fluffy wanted "wars" and you don't. OK.  It seems one rule for some and one for others. If no one wants to fight with you, and you start on them , fill your boots. But don't claim it's their fault when you started the whole thing. Some folk are tired of fighting.

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 I’d love to stop and chat with you but pressure washing the garden furniture is so much more interesting than wasting time conversing with someone who thinks it’s ok for a woman to call another woman with a big nose an anteater. 

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 She had called Fluffy  various  animals and I believe roadkill this particular day into the bargain  and so Fluffy retaliated so she didn't appear to be a doormat. 

You need to move on "BackGammon  from DS ", secure in the knowledge that no one can throw your old comments in your face, To keep several screenshots someone must be invested emotionally, and not merely from DS. 

Carry on trolling if it makes 'you' happy.  But people remember the spite was from all parties so you won't be able to spin that one. Shame you would feel the need to, speaking as a member to an Anon. Isn't the status quo enough for you? Have a nice life.

John Doe wrote:

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John Doe wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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The problem with smallish forums, especially ones like this one and Dogs, they have members who often have lot's of history with each other, some good some bad.
Some people just cant let go of the past...so on and on these grudges go, with other people adding a bit here and there as they go.

Others let bygones be bygones, and if what happened in the past is not something they are able to easily forgive and forget, at least they manage to avoid each other and not forever be dragging the past up for another outing.

There are people I dont like, and dont even want to like on forums....I simply ignore them, it's better for ones blood pressure.

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 That's very good advice! I had trouble on forums once and felt pretty worthless. I retaliated but often I was up against a lot of posters so was never going to win. But I can't claim innocence, Posters called  me horrible names so I did the same back. The moment I did that I was as bad as them.

Its Fathers Day and my dad has passed recently.  My family  is devastated and I have grown up a lot when it comes to online rubbish.  It's sad people won't move on.  I have forgiven  people because as the saying goes "An eye for an eye and the world goes blind". 

Kindness is the way forward, and people can and do change. I can only speak for myself as an Anon  but I just want everyone to  be happy and get on.  But if people sadly want to remain in the past arguing they can do so alone.

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That is an excellent post and I am so very sorry that your father has recently passed. XXX

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 Thank you xx You're a kind poster and have had to put up with  a lot of lies told about you so  i'm really glad you have settled here and are content .  People see kindness for weakness but that's an indication of their character, not yours.

Glad everything is good with you JD :sunny:

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 Thank you - if you are who I think you are get in touch again. 

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 I deleted my email address sadly and everything to do with forums. I would like to get in touch but not sure how that wud be possible because I've been a prat.

Possibly if I posted my email Syl could kindly give you the details via pm but if she isn't comfortable with that I understand completely.

 

 

No sorry, I wont be passing details forwards.
You are using an anonymous proxy, you could be anyone.

Twizzler wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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No sorry, I wont be passing details forwards.
You are using an anonymous proxy, you could be anyone.

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 You do right there Syl, it could be anyone. Somebody impersonating Fluffy. 

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 Well that has been known to happen, on quite a few occasions.