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Maddog · Go Outside

RE: What are you going to do once lockdown is over

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Alternatively here many businesses are requesting credit/debit card payments so cash needn't be handled.

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Alternatively here many businesses are requesting credit/debit card payments so cash needn't be handled.

Yeah, we had that for awhile. But we have so many mom and pop places on hanging on by thread, that they need every dime.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

What's a mom and pop place?
Dont the vast majority of Americans use credit or debit cards as the norm?

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
What's a mom and pop place?
Dont the vast majority of Americans use credit or debit cards as the norm?

Small business. Family owned places.

Yeah, most people use cards.

Maddog · Go Outside

Maddog wrote:
I might get a table dance from a stripper.

But in reality, there isn't really anything I cant do that I really want to. I can travel if I want to.

I just want normalcy. I want to shake a hand or give a hug and it not be "awkward".

I want to see live music in a crowded venue.

I want to see people worry less about losing businesses or making ends meet.

I'd like to throw all my fucking masks away and wear bandanas for a sweaty July day and not to walk into a restaurant.

I'm sorta getting what I want next Wednesday. But a lot of places are going to keep old restrictions including masks, even though the Governor has lifted the mandate.

So while people can legally behave like they used to, it appears a great many of them won't.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.

That might be a year away.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.
That might be a year away.

Yes it might, and though we all hate it its' telling how human beings can adapt to the oddest of situations.

I even social distance in my dreams now....

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.
That might be a year away.
Yes it might, and though we all hate it its' telling how human beings can adapt to the oddest of situations.
I even social distance in my dreams now....

It is strange how we have become "programmed". Might even be scary.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.
That might be a year away.
Yes it might, and though we all hate it its' telling how human beings can adapt to the oddest of situations.
I even social distance in my dreams now....
It is strange how we have become "programmed". Might even be scary.

I know...The film Fahrenheit 451 has crossed my mind quite a few times over the last year.

John Doe · Still Here!

Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.
That might be a year away.
Yes it might, and though we all hate it its' telling how human beings can adapt to the oddest of situations.
I even social distance in my dreams now....
It is strange how we have become "programmed". Might even be scary.
I know...The film Fahrenheit 451 has crossed my mind quite a few times over the last year.

Well Syl the novel 1984 has crossed mine a lot over the last year with all the statue toppling and attempts to erase history by the thought police and BLM.

How can we learn from the past if it is covered up and hidden?

-- Edited by John Doe on Wednesday 3rd of March 2021 10:19:13 PM

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Frightening when fiction becomes factual.

Date: Mar 4 6:25 AM, 2021

John Doe wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maybe some people feel safer in crowded places wearing a mask. I can understand that, even though we have many here who have never bothered wearing one in the first place.

I am more looking forwards to not having to social distance. Not only so I can hug and be close to family and friends, but also so I don't have to be aware of standing feet apart from strangers when I am out. It's a horrible way to live, treating everyone (and being treated) like a leper.
That might be a year away.
Yes it might, and though we all hate it its' telling how human beings can adapt to the oddest of situations.
I even social distance in my dreams now....
It is strange how we have become "programmed". Might even be scary.
I know...The film Fahrenheit 451 has crossed my mind quite a few times over the last year.
Well Syl the novel 1984 has crossed mine a lot over the last year with all the statue toppling and attempts to erase history by the thought police and BLM.
How can we learn from the past if it is covered up and hidden?

-- Edited by John Doe on Wednesday 3rd of March 2021 10:19:13 PM

It's not just that though is it, its also not being able to speak out that you feel something is wrong. If you think the rules are mad and often make no sense and try to say so, the brainwashed will jump on you, call you selfish tell you to shut up and follow the rules. 1984 was not just about getting rid of history. it was about programing people to comply and police each other into being a good citizen

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

People can and do speak out when they feel something is wrong. Forums (the ones that don't encourage bullying) are a good example of giving people a voice.

If people have the courage to speak out and go against the crowd, I'm sure they have the nerve to stand up to and face the fallout.

Date: Mar 22 8:30 PM, 2021

Hug my Mum and Dad, and not let go!.... so missed their hugs!

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Poca wrote:
Hug my Mum and Dad, and not let go!.... so missed their hugs!

Aww, I know the feeling Poca.

Sadly I dont have a mum to hug anymore, but I cant wait to hug close family members and friends again.

Date: Mar 23 5:35 PM, 2021

Long lunches with friends & travelling to visit relatives (or have them visit me) - free of any restrictions.
After being stuck abroad for 5 months last year, it’ll be great to know I can safely book return flights home again

Digger · Admin

Vam wrote:
Long lunches with friends & travelling to visit relatives (or have them visit me) - free of any restrictions.
After being stuck abroad for 5 months last year, it’ll be great to know I can safely book return flights home again

I think that's what I miss the most. Having long chatty lunches with my friends and family.

Date: Mar 23 7:42 PM, 2021

Digger wrote:
Vam wrote:
Long lunches with friends & travelling to visit relatives (or have them visit me) - free of any restrictions.
After being stuck abroad for 5 months last year, it’ll be great to know I can safely book return flights home again
I think that's what I miss the most. Having long chatty lunches with my friends and family.

... without the faff of how many people can sit together at a table!

Right now, we have a 4-person at a time limit. When my lot do manage to organise a get-together (outside dining only) we have to spread ourselves out across 2 or 3 tables. And we yell - a lot!