Are people born with it, do they automatically acquire it through being drop dead gorgeous? What defines 'sexy'?
Myself and OH were watching a movie last night with John Malkovich in it. He asked me, "What's your thoughts on him from a woman's point of view?" I replied, "Sexy as fuck!" But why? He's not particularly good looking. But he just has it.
I agree, sex appeal and charisma, can't be manufactured.
Marilyn Monroe was a sex symbol, but she also had charisma, todays manufactured 'sex kittens' just don't have it.
Helen Mirren has it, Audrey Hepburn had it. we probably all know someone in real life who has it.
Maybe you have it yourself....and if you do, you probably don't even know you have it.
For me, sex appeal only becomes apparent with physical interaction with someone…. not based on looks alone!… the hottest looking guy can turn out to be a real dork… no charm, charisma or character whatsoever!