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Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

RE: Hello 😉

Digger · Admin

Syl wrote:
Dont you want a real girlfriend, one that comes with all the trimmings.

All the trimmings? You mean like with her own puncture kit and bicycle pump?

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Dont you want a real girlfriend, one that comes with all the trimmings.

Sure. The pretend ones don't really hinder that pursuit..

Me chasing girls out of my league and blowing off the ones in my league, might.

It's really more difficult to find someone you are attracted to, like being around, agree with on enough issues, when you get older.

I have plenty of female friends that are interested in a relationship. They just don't push all the right buttons for me.

Maddog · Go Outside

Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
Dont you want a real girlfriend, one that comes with all the trimmings.
All the trimmings? You mean like with her own puncture kit and bicycle pump?

Are you trying to get me aroused with that dirty talk? 😉

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Digger wrote:
Syl wrote:
Dont you want a real girlfriend, one that comes with all the trimmings.
All the trimmings? You mean like with her own puncture kit and bicycle pump?

In Maddogs case, I'm sure that would do it.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Dont you want a real girlfriend, one that comes with all the trimmings.
Sure. The pretend ones don't really hinder that pursuit..

Me chasing girls out of my league and blowing off the ones in my league, might.
It's really more difficult to find someone you are attracted to, like being around, agree with on enough issues, when you get older.

I have plenty of female friends that are interested in a relationship. They just don't push all the right buttons for me.

Out of your league? like much younger?

I have never been in your position, but yeah, I can imagine the older you get, the harder it would be to find someone you are really attracted to that reciprocates those feelings.

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Dont you want a real girlfriend, one that comes with all the trimmings.
Sure. The pretend ones don't really hinder that pursuit..

Me chasing girls out of my league and blowing off the ones in my league, might.
It's really more difficult to find someone you are attracted to, like being around, agree with on enough issues, when you get older.

I have plenty of female friends that are interested in a relationship. They just don't push all the right buttons for me.
Out of your league? like much younger?
I have never been in your position, but yeah, I can imagine the older you get, the harder it would be to find someone you are really attracted to that reciprocates those feelings.

Yeah, I forget that girls in their 30's, while not youngsters, are generally not attracted to men my age. But their are plenty of exceptions, but then they may have little kids or still want kids.

Or they are batshit crazy..

I had one of those a few years ago. Gorgeous but bipolar.

The girl that gives me eggs is in her 30s and is very attractive..

But she lives 50 miles away way out in the country.

And I know she takes some medications that worry me.

See the above example. 😉

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Even though the women are younger than you, no one gets to be in their 30's and over with some baggage, like kids, or the yearning to have them before it's too late.
I suppose, if you find someone you would like to make a go of it with, you accept em, warts and all, like they would with you.

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Even though the women are younger than you, no one gets to be in their 30's and over with some baggage, like kids, or the yearning to have them before it's too late.
I suppose, if you find someone you would like to make a go of it with, you accept em, warts and all, like they would with you.

No doubt.

See, I keep looking for unicorns..

And I don't care of girls have kids.

But if they are like 5 and 8, I'm out.

Maddog · Go Outside

And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maddog wrote:
And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.

I had more offers in my 40's and 50's than I did in my teens and 20's.

So I agree, older women can of course, be gorgeous.

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.
I had more offers in my 40's and 50's than I did in my teens and 20's.
So I agree, older women can of course, be gorgeous.

Agreed.

I think there is something even more attractive about a woman who is a bit older amd more attractive. You know it requires some effort, where a 25 year old is still just running on a good metabolism and genetics.

How many girls that were smoking hot at 25 look rough as hell at 45?

Digger · Admin

Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.
I had more offers in my 40's and 50's than I did in my teens and 20's.
So I agree, older women can of course, be gorgeous.
Agreed.

I think there is something even more attractive about a woman who is a bit older amd more attractive. You know it requires some effort, where a 25 year old is still just running on a good metabolism and genetics.

How many girls that were smoking hot at 25 look rough as hell at 45?

Depends on genetics. I got lucky. I was still looking good at fifty. After about 55 it all goes downhill

Even the most beautiful men and woman age and lose their looks. It gets us all eventually. I do remember going to a school reunion when I was 40 and being horrified at how old some of them looked. They were smokers and drinkers.

Maddog · Go Outside

Digger wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.
I had more offers in my 40's and 50's than I did in my teens and 20's.
So I agree, older women can of course, be gorgeous.
Agreed.

I think there is something even more attractive about a woman who is a bit older amd more attractive. You know it requires some effort, where a 25 year old is still just running on a good metabolism and genetics.

How many girls that were smoking hot at 25 look rough as hell at 45?
Depends on genetics. I got lucky. I was still looking good at fifty. After about 55 it all goes downhill
Even the most beautiful men and woman age and lose their looks. It gets us all eventually. I do remember going to a school reunion when I was 40 and being horrified at how old some of them looked. They were smokers and drinkers.

Sometimes I wonder why these people my age seem so old to me.

I think a lot of that is mental.

I forget how old I am.

Maybe I'm senile? 😬

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Some people just have a young outlook on life, no matter what age they are, others seem old before their time, and that's probably reflected in their looks.
I don't agree that people 'lose their looks after 50'....they simply age, so what?

If someone is hankering to be a fresh-faced, firm bodied stunner at 60, they won't be happy with what they are, and looking at people who try to stay like that by going down the plastic surgery, botox and collagen route....sadly they don't manage it either.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maddog wrote:
Digger wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.
I had more offers in my 40's and 50's than I did in my teens and 20's.
So I agree, older women can of course, be gorgeous.
Agreed.

I think there is something even more attractive about a woman who is a bit older amd more attractive. You know it requires some effort, where a 25 year old is still just running on a good metabolism and genetics.

How many girls that were smoking hot at 25 look rough as hell at 45?
Depends on genetics. I got lucky. I was still looking good at fifty. After about 55 it all goes downhill
Even the most beautiful men and woman age and lose their looks. It gets us all eventually. I do remember going to a school reunion when I was 40 and being horrified at how old some of them looked. They were smokers and drinkers.
Sometimes I wonder why these people my age seem so old to me.

I think a lot of that is mental.

I forget how old I am.

Maybe I'm senile? 😬

Lol....you are not senile, you are childish, especially with your kids and grandkids, nothing wrong with that....it makes life fun.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Was it in here some of us, including Digger and Maddog, posted pics of then and now??

I loved that thread.

Maddog · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Digger wrote:
Maddog wrote:
Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:
And, I do date/go out with girls in their 40s and 50s too.

I don't have an age I'm attracted to as much as a look.

They can have that well past their 30s.
I had more offers in my 40's and 50's than I did in my teens and 20's.
So I agree, older women can of course, be gorgeous.
Agreed.

I think there is something even more attractive about a woman who is a bit older amd more attractive. You know it requires some effort, where a 25 year old is still just running on a good metabolism and genetics.

How many girls that were smoking hot at 25 look rough as hell at 45?
Depends on genetics. I got lucky. I was still looking good at fifty. After about 55 it all goes downhill
Even the most beautiful men and woman age and lose their looks. It gets us all eventually. I do remember going to a school reunion when I was 40 and being horrified at how old some of them looked. They were smokers and drinkers.
Sometimes I wonder why these people my age seem so old to me.

I think a lot of that is mental.

I forget how old I am.

Maybe I'm senile? 😬
Lol....you are not senile, you are childish, especially with your kids and grandkids, nothing wrong with that....it makes life fun.

Basically, I went from childhood, right back to childhood.

I had about 2 days of adulthood in the middle and decided it just wasn't for me..😉

Maddog · Go Outside

Volume at work is really slowing down.

They are using what they got to battle inflation, and it's starting to slow things down.

So I get to pay more for everything as my income drops at the same time.

This is fun. 😬

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Maddog wrote:
Volume at work is really slowing down.

They are using what they got to battle inflation, and it's starting to slow things down.

So I get to pay more for everything as my income drops at the same time.

This is fun. 😬

At least your petrol is cheaper than ours.