ChaoticMusings

Date: Apr 20 3:40 PM, 2024

RE: Death

Date: Apr 21 5:33 PM, 2024

Bought my suit, trousers, tie, belts and some new shoes today If nothing else I at least will look smart. 🙂 On a more sour note the Gaza fanatics were out in force in Reading town centre and not one fucking copper was there - at least that I could see anyway. It sheer intimidation for Jrewish people born here who have nothing to do with the Israel government's actions. Phil.

Magica · Go Outside

Anonymous wrote:
Bought my suit, trousers, tie, belts and some new shoes today If nothing else I at least will look smart. 🙂 On a more sour note the Gaza fanatics were out in force in Reading town centre and not one fucking copper was there - at least that I could see anyway. It sheer intimidation for Jrewish people born here who have nothing to do with the Israel government's actions. Phil.

I'm sure you will look smart.

No it's nothing to do with.the Jewish community here, unfair to pick on them.

TurquoiseCat · Bit Shy

Glad you were able to buy a suit Phil. Hope it goes ok for you.

Magica · Go Outside

TurquoiseCat wrote:
Glad you were able to buy a suit Phil. Hope it goes ok for you.

Hey like your avi Cat, have we met before ?

Date: Apr 22 4:01 PM, 2024

Magica wrote:
TurquoiseCat wrote:
Glad you were able to buy a suit Phil. Hope it goes ok for you.
Hey like your avi Cat, have we met before ?

Thank you my name is my favourite colour and favourite animal and so for Avi I just googled turquoise cats 😆 thought was pretty!

Not sure if met before, I used to post on DS many years ago which is where I knew Phil (and Tina) from, but not under this name.

TurquoiseCat · Bit Shy

Magica wrote:
TurquoiseCat wrote:
Glad you were able to buy a suit Phil. Hope it goes ok for you.
Hey like your avi Cat, have we met before ?

Hey, I tried to reply to this but I think it didn't post. In case I post twice...

Thanks, it's my favourite colour and animal and for avi I googled turquoise cats 😆 thought was pretty.

I don't think so, though I used to post on DS about 10 years ago which is where I met Phil and Tina, but not under this name.

Magica · Go Outside

TurquoiseCat wrote:
Magica wrote:
TurquoiseCat wrote:
Glad you were able to buy a suit Phil. Hope it goes ok for you.
Hey like your avi Cat, have we met before ?

Hey, I tried to reply to this but I think it didn't post. In case I post twice...

Thanks, it's my favourite colour and animal and for avi I googled turquoise cats 😆 thought was pretty.

I don't think so, though I used to post on DS about 10 years ago which is where I met Phil and Tina, but not under this name.

Ahh, I was never on DS, so we wouldn't have met.

Anyway, welcome here, nice to meet you

TurquoiseCat · Bit Shy

Thank you 😊 I am not on any forums anymore but Phil told me about here when we've spoken, I know he's had some good support here.

Date: Apr 22 5:58 PM, 2024

Hello. Thank you for the very kind message TC.X I cant believe I joined DS all those years ago! Temmus fugit. Yes, Syl, Digs, Mags and others have always tried to help. It's been a rough few years for me by any standards but once the funeral is over I am totally in charge of what remains of my life. 🙂

Magica · Go Outside

TurquoiseCat wrote:
Thank you 😊 I am not on any forums anymore but Phil told me about here when we've spoken, I know he's had some good support here.

We all tried, especially Digger and Syl, but tbh he wasn't listening. .😞

Date: Apr 24 4:19 PM, 2024

The funeral was as beautiful as such a tragic occasion can be I wish I could upload a photo or two. Anyway my off the cuff euology was very well received. Need to sleep now. Utterly emotionally exhausted. Phil.

Magica · Go Outside

Anonymous wrote:
The funeral was as beautiful as such a tragic occasion can be I wish I could upload a photo or two. Anyway my off the cuff euology was very well received. Need to sleep now. Utterly emotionally exhausted. Phil.

Oh I'm glad you did the Eulogy, bet it made you feel better in yourself to be able to say what you wanted inside.

Glad it went off well.

Date: Apr 24 7:43 PM, 2024

I cried a river but at least it went well. X

Magica · Go Outside

Good 👍

Date: Apr 25 6:38 PM, 2024

Whatever I said after 2 bottlrs of vodka(and I suspect it was aimed at all the fxcking 'dating'sites that have ruined my inbox for some reason so a huge pissed mistake) ypu ate the only one not to judge me. Thank ypu. Coffee morning tomorrow. Lovely woman sent me a message saying she hoped the funeral.went well and she looks forward to us all having a chat. Which was a huge surprise and very nice of her, she has enough on her plate with the children and her scumbag partner. Phil.

Magica · Go Outside

Anonymous wrote:
Whatever I said after 2 bottlrs of vodka(and I suspect it was aimed at all the fxcking 'dating'sites that have ruined my inbox for some reason so a huge pissed mistake) ypu ate the only one not to judge me. Thank ypu. Coffee morning tomorrow. Lovely woman sent me a message saying she hoped the funeral.went well and she looks forward to us all having a chat. Which was a huge surprise and very nice of her, she has enough on her plate with the children and her scumbag partner. Phil.

I was very angry what you said to Syl. She really didn't deserve it after all the help she's given you. Digs has too. Everyone here has.

So I'm not defending what you said. I just wanted to encourage you to get help.

Date: Apr 26 12:32 PM, 2024

I have no idea what was said. Absolutely none I was in a blackout. I have just inferred it because of what people have said. Whatever it was it is not me.

Digger · Admin

Anonymous wrote:
I have no idea what was said. Absolutely none I was in a blackout. I have just inferred it because of what people have said. Whatever it was it is not me.

Whether it was you in a drunken fugue or you simply can't remember...either way it was unacceptable and hurt Syl. You've been saying since you came on here that you were taking steps to help yourself but you clearly haven't. Nobody wished you well more than us on here. So please show us that you are being proactive in your journey to get well.

Maddog · Go Outside

Digger wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I have no idea what was said. Absolutely none I was in a blackout. I have just inferred it because of what people have said. Whatever it was it is not me.
Whether it was you in a drunken fugue or you simply can't remember...either way it was unacceptable and hurt Syl. You've been saying since you came on here that you were taking steps to help yourself but you clearly haven't. Nobody wished you well more than us on here. So please show us that you are being proactive in your journey to get well.

It was you that drank all of that vodka and you that acted that way.

Being shit faced isn't an excuse or get out of jail card.

There are 3 tactics people use to wiggle out of responsibility for their actions.

Minimize

Deny

Blame..

Don't do that..