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Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Swapped at birth.

Magica · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
A very unusual case, the first one ever recorded by the NHS.

"Two families in the West Midlands are waiting for compensation in the first documented case of babies being switched at birth in NHS history.
It was only taken out of idle curiosity one rainy winter’s day – but the shocking result of a DNA test was to force two women and their families to reassess everything they knew about themselves."

The DNA test that showed two women had been swapped at birth - BBC News

This.must be upsetting for them all. To know their parents arn't theres. I couldn't begin to know what to do.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Joan is one of the mothers who was given the wrong baby all those years ago.
She is now in her 80's and has just found out the only daughter she has raised for all those years, is not her biological child.
The woman no longer calls Joan her mother.
On a brighter note, Joan and her real biological daughter have met and the daughter does call Joan mum.

Magica · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Joan is one of the mothers who was given the wrong baby all those years ago.
She is now in her 80's and has just found out the only daughter she has raised for all those years, is not her biological child.
The woman no longer calls Joan her mother.
On a brighter note, Joan and her real biological daughter have met and the daughter does call Joan mum.

Oh what a terrible thing to happen. I never let my babies leave my side when born. If they had to go into the nursery while we were supposed to rest, I went to.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Magica wrote:
Syl wrote:
Joan is one of the mothers who was given the wrong baby all those years ago.
She is now in her 80's and has just found out the only daughter she has raised for all those years, is not her biological child.
The woman no longer calls Joan her mother.
On a brighter note, Joan and her real biological daughter have met and the daughter does call Joan mum.
Oh what a terrible thing to happen. I never let my babies leave my side when born. If they had to go into the nursery while we were supposed to rest, I went to.

I had no choice. My son struggled a bit, he was whisked away upstairs to the ICU.

When my husband came to visit that night, he said he had seen our son in his incubator, I still hadn't been allowed to see him.

I told the nurse I wanted my baby, she said he was still in ICU.

My OH had been shown the wrong baby.

Vita · Know It All

My mum had to come home without me when I was born because I hadn't a few health problems.

Thankfully the other two babies in the special health care unit were boys so there wasn't much chance of her being given the wrong one.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Vita wrote:
My mum had to come home without me when I was born because I hadn't a few health problems.
Thankfully the other two babies in the special health care unit were boys so there wasn't much chance of her being given the wrong one.

Lol...that's more obvious than being given a fair haired baby when all the family are dark...as in the OP story.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Having a baby, with all the drama and pain that's quickly forgotten about, should be a time to look back and remember the happiness of it all.
This mum has had all that taken away now.

Vita, it must have been sad for your mum leaving hospital empty-handed, thankfully all worked out well in the end.

One of my over-riding memories of having my son...it was Christmas time, feeding time in the ward. The nurses suddenly rushed in, took our babies, said they would mind them whilst us mums should go along the corridor as a treat was waiting.
So off we went, trying to fasten dressing gowns around leaky boobs, wondering what this great surprise would be.

It was bell ringers.... not very good ones either, and me and another girl got the giggles, we ended up, doubled up with laughter in a linen store cupboard, trying hard to stop laughing, One..because we would soon be missed, and Two, because laughing too hard hurts the stitches in a very vulnerable place.

Magica · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Magica wrote:
Syl wrote:
Joan is one of the mothers who was given the wrong baby all those years ago.
She is now in her 80's and has just found out the only daughter she has raised for all those years, is not her biological child.
The woman no longer calls Joan her mother.
On a brighter note, Joan and her real biological daughter have met and the daughter does call Joan mum.
Oh what a terrible thing to happen. I never let my babies leave my side when born. If they had to go into the nursery while we were supposed to rest, I went to.
I had no choice. My son struggled a bit, he was whisked away upstairs to the ICU.
When my husband came to visit that night, he said he had seen our son in his incubator, I still hadn't been allowed to see him.
I told the nurse I wanted my baby, she said he was still in ICU.
My OH had been shown the wrong baby.

This is how things can go so wrong.

Syl · FIRM BUT FAIR.

Magica wrote:
Syl wrote:
Magica wrote:
Syl wrote:
Joan is one of the mothers who was given the wrong baby all those years ago.
She is now in her 80's and has just found out the only daughter she has raised for all those years, is not her biological child.
The woman no longer calls Joan her mother.
On a brighter note, Joan and her real biological daughter have met and the daughter does call Joan mum.
Oh what a terrible thing to happen. I never let my babies leave my side when born. If they had to go into the nursery while we were supposed to rest, I went to.
I had no choice. My son struggled a bit, he was whisked away upstairs to the ICU.
When my husband came to visit that night, he said he had seen our son in his incubator, I still hadn't been allowed to see him.
I told the nurse I wanted my baby, she said he was still in ICU.
My OH had been shown the wrong baby.

This is how things can go so wrong.

The baby the nurse shown him was in the wrong room...ours was still upstairs in intensive care.

A stupid mistake, thank God I was brought the right baby the next day.

Magica · Go Outside

Syl wrote:
Magica wrote:
Syl wrote:
Magica wrote:
Syl wrote:
Joan is one of the mothers who was given the wrong baby all those years ago.
She is now in her 80's and has just found out the only daughter she has raised for all those years, is not her biological child.
The woman no longer calls Joan her mother.
On a brighter note, Joan and her real biological daughter have met and the daughter does call Joan mum.
Oh what a terrible thing to happen. I never let my babies leave my side when born. If they had to go into the nursery while we were supposed to rest, I went to.
I had no choice. My son struggled a bit, he was whisked away upstairs to the ICU.
When my husband came to visit that night, he said he had seen our son in his incubator, I still hadn't been allowed to see him.
I told the nurse I wanted my baby, she said he was still in ICU.
My OH had been shown the wrong baby.

This is how things can go so wrong.
The baby the nurse shown him was in the wrong room...ours was still upstairs in intensive care.
A stupid mistake, thank God I was brought the right baby the next day.