ChaoticMusings

Maddog wrote:

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jackb wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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New question...
Does it annoy you if a tradesman asks to use your toilet, and he is obviously having more than a wee?

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 No and I don't understand why it would.

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 Were guys. We could brush our teeth while a tradesman was taking a dump in the same bathroom. 

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 Men are from Mars, etc.....

 

Most of the men I have ever known will happily use any toilet when they are out. I can count on one hand women who will. It's my idea of a nightmare, having to go into a public loo to do anything more than have a wee.

I certainly would, I don't discriminate.
However....women don't seem to stink the place out like men do.

Magica wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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I certainly would, I don't discriminate.
However....women don't seem to stink the place out like men do.

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 Right on Syl 

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 Yep, it's a medical fact, and if it isn't ... it should be.

New question....


When dating a new man, is it acceptable that in this day and age, women should expect the man to pay the bill after dining out?

So we are mainly older on here, and in my day, it was more usual...but even back then, I did offer to split. I can't remember that it was ever accepted, and I never insisted.

Women are certainly more equal now than back then, including on the pay scale ...so is a woman taking advantage now, if she expects the man to do all the paying?

Syl wrote:

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New question....


When dating a new man, is it acceptable that in this day and age, women should expect the man to pay the bill after dining out?

So we are mainly older on here, and in my day, it was more usual...but even back then, I did offer to split. I can't remember that it was ever accepted, and I never insisted.

Women are certainly more equal now than back then, including on the pay scale ...so is a woman taking advantage now, if she expects the man to do all the paying?

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 My dad always told me to halfers.  I did.  Until  my boyfriend insisted on paying,. 

I think a lot of women do nowadays aswell.  It's only fair, they earn the same, if not more, than some men.

Magica wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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New question....


When dating a new man, is it acceptable that in this day and age, women should expect the man to pay the bill after dining out?

So we are mainly older on here, and in my day, it was more usual...but even back then, I did offer to split. I can't remember that it was ever accepted, and I never insisted.

Women are certainly more equal now than back then, including on the pay scale ...so is a woman taking advantage now, if she expects the man to do all the paying?

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 My dad always told me to halfers.  I did.  Until  my boyfriend insisted on paying,. 

I think a lot of women do nowadays aswell.  It's only fair, they earn the same, if not more, than some men.

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 I watch the TV programme 'First Dates', it amazes me that in this day and age, so many women don't offer to go halves, some wait till he gets his cc out, then half heartedly and reluctantly offer, maybe less than half offer properly.

Most of the men want to pay, and that's fine if they do.

Maddog wrote:

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I still pay about 90% of all entertainment.

I'm far more of a social creature than her so most entertainment is my idea, so I pay for it.

She's also very frugal and stresses when she see what things cost. It's better of she doesn't even see the bill, lol.

In fact she often doesn't even look at the menu any more and just tells me to order..

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 Gosh. So not only does she want you to choose what she wears, she wants you to choose what she eats too. Sounds like the perfect relationship for you.

Syl wrote:

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Magica wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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New question....


When dating a new man, is it acceptable that in this day and age, women should expect the man to pay the bill after dining out?

So we are mainly older on here, and in my day, it was more usual...but even back then, I did offer to split. I can't remember that it was ever accepted, and I never insisted.

Women are certainly more equal now than back then, including on the pay scale ...so is a woman taking advantage now, if she expects the man to do all the paying?

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 My dad always told me to halfers.  I did.  Until  my boyfriend insisted on paying,. 

I think a lot of women do nowadays aswell.  It's only fair, they earn the same, if not more, than some men.

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 I watch the TV programme 'First Dates', it amazes me that in this day and age, so many women don't offer to go halves, some wait till he gets his cc out, then half heartedly and reluctantly offer, maybe less than half offer properly.

Most of the men want to pay, and that's fine if they do.

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 Not right imo. Go halves is fair.

Maddog wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

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Maddog wrote:

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I still pay about 90% of all entertainment.

I'm far more of a social creature than her so most entertainment is my idea, so I pay for it.

She's also very frugal and stresses when she see what things cost. It's better of she doesn't even see the bill, lol.

In fact she often doesn't even look at the menu any more and just tells me to order..

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 Gosh. So not only does she want you to choose what she wears, she wants you to choose what she eats too. Sounds like the perfect relationship for you.

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 Almost every woman on the planet makes men go through the whole "which outfit is better", even if most men don't care and just want the woman to choose one and get on with it..

 

 

I'll admit most women are too picky to just tell their man "surprise me" when it comes to food or drinks.

 

Yes, her low maintenance, low drama is refreshing..👍

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Uppity women eh.