ChaoticMusings

My OH has NEVER ordered for me in a restaurant.
Thinking back, I don't think any man has ever had the nerve to presume they can speak for me, regarding food....or anything else come to that.

Syl wrote:

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My OH has NEVER ordered for me in a restaurant.
Thinking back, I don't think any man has ever had the nerve to presume they can speak for me, regarding food....or anything else come to that.

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You need to read what I said.

 

It's her idea. I'd never assume I could speak for someone either, unless they asked me to .

 

She says would order what's cheap, not what she wants.  She said it's better if she doesn't know what it costs or ever sees the bill..

 

She prefers not to be stressed out when we are out. Should I not honor that request?

 

This is from a woman who spent 30 years with a man who didn't take her out to places like I do because he thought it was a waste of money. She's unlearning all of that neglect. 

Syl wrote:

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Maddog wrote:

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Syl wrote:

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My OH has NEVER ordered for me in a restaurant.
Thinking back, I don't think any man has ever had the nerve to presume they can speak for me, regarding food....or anything else come to that.

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You need to read what I said.

 

It's her idea. I'd never assume I could speak for someone either, unless they asked me to .

 

She says would order what's cheap, not what she wants.  She said it's better if she doesn't know what it costs or ever sees the bill..

 

She prefers not to be stressed out when we are out. Should I not honor that request?

 

This is from a woman who spent 30 years with a man who didn't take her out to places like I do because he thought it was a waste of money. She's unlearning all of that neglect. 

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 I did read what you said, I just added my own two pence worth.

It's sad your girlfriend wasted 30 years of her life on an arsehole, and it's good you understand why she is like she is. Hopefully, before too long, she will realise she is lovely, and deserves to be treated well....and when that day comes, I hope she orders the most expensive item on the menu...and enjoys every mouthful. 

  (that's for her, not you)

 

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 She was raising kids and is programed to make the family unit work. That's from her parents I think though..

 

She would agree she should have left sooner though.

 

 

So can I ask where this is heading, Dawg? Are you guys ready to crank it up a couple of levels yet? 
I do LOVE happy endings!